Archive for November 17th, 2004

Need glasses / Can’t see Tommy

Wednesday, November 17th, 2004

Dad reports:
Tommy’s optical appointment was for January 19, 2005. We got incredibly lucky and a cancellation put us on the schedule for today! (this is how karma works) Cathy goes to pick Tommy up from school and they “can’t find him.” (I too am personally anxious to hear the full story on that one)

Once found, Tommy gets in the car with Mom and immediately starts yelling at her. At the ophthalmologist a emergency patient, a dog bit a 2 year old through the eye lid and pierced the eye, puts Mom and Tommy on wait. Tommy gets antsy. When it comes time to put eye drops in his eyes for dialation Tommy resists and the staff has to hold him down. After the appointment he is all questions (”Why do you have to pay for parking?”) and nonstop chatter. Mom says, “It’s like he’s 5 years old again.”

Hormones and Escorts

Wednesday, November 17th, 2004

Dad reports:
The school has called to inform us that Tommy wanted to talk to a girl so he grabbed her butt. Apparently he has done this to two girls.

The school’s reaction is that Tommy will be escorted by a teacher, vice-principle, or police officer at all times now.

Teacher’s comment: “I guess he likes girls a lot right now”

I feel steam rolled by Tommy right now. How can we help him when he doesn’t seem to want to be helped? How can we get him to walk the correct path when he is off in the woods knocking down the forest?

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Wednesday, November 17th, 2004

Dad reports this morning:
Tommy starts his day off grousing and grumpy. I don’t expect he will have a good day at school.