Archive for February 22nd, 2005

Single Focus Mind

Tuesday, February 22nd, 2005

Dad reports:
Here’s an example of how the Aspie mind works in our child.

Tommy is getting ready to have breakfast. He says “oh yeah. I forgot to tell you my bus driver called last night and said he will be here at 7:25. He pulls out the cereal, a spoon and milk. As he sets them on the table at 7:16 he sees his bus. He moans “oooouuuh. My bus is here.” and walks to the door. Task had to change. The thought of the milk spoiling on the table never crosses his mind. When asked about it he growls in frustration because he has to be going out the door to the bus and diverting his attention to a few seconds to put the milk away is counter to the task at hand. He manages to squeak out an almost polite request for me to put it away and I acquiesce.

Lack of motivation

Tuesday, February 22nd, 2005

Dad reports:
Yesterday there was no school so Tommy refused to get dressed. Since the aspie support group was tonight and Mom had a meeting I had hoped Tommy would join us for a trip to the library. He normally enjoys the library. Yesterday though he refused to bathe or get dressed and had such a smell to him that no exception could be made. He had to be left which I am certain has become a reward for him. “Oh! I’m staying home alone. You mean I can eat anything I want and watch anything I want?” Some battles aren’t worth fighting.

This morning he has barked at me each time I’ve tried to stir him.